Thursday, June 30

organizing, schmorganizing!

I have a confession to make...  I am a pack-rat.  It's true.  I keep things and then I do not get rid of them as quickly as I could.  Or... they end up in my basement with the lofty goal of having a garage sale -- which hasn't happened yet.

So now that I am unemployed, I have to clean up and clean OUT all of this crap, get organized and have a garage sale.  BUT I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO BEGIN!!!  I don't like our basement; there are spiders down there.  This means that I will leave my husband to bring up all of those boxes -- which I will then, gingerly go through, thinking of spiders the whole time.

Plan of Action: Clearing clutter in "pre-garage sale glory":

  • Starting in my bedroom, with my clothes.  
    • I have a lot of clothes.  A LOT!
  • Tackle the guest bedrooms 
    • This is where the extraneous clothes and accessories are
  • Bathrooms 
    • I am a product junkie, so I need to be ruthless here
  • Kitchen 
    • Pare down tupperware-ish stuff that I do not use
    • Canned goods gone bad
    • Items we just will not eat
    • Get rid of paper and junk mail collections
    • Get rid of Dog Items I Scout does not use (and donate to the Oakland County Pet Adoption Center)
  • Living Room / Dining Room
    • Not much to get rid of here, but there are some odds and ends, extra tablecloths, etc
  • Family Room
    • Clean off my desk 
      • Get rid of paper and junk mail collections
    • Get rid of books and magazines I have read
    • Old candles
    • Sort cords for charge-able items
  • Office
    • That is SOLELY my husband's disaster area mess -- so that one is on him.
  • Garage
    • This one is MOSTLY my husband's disaster area mess -- I will help, but this one will mainly fall on his shoulders.
  • Basement
    • Not ready to even go there.  Yet....

Then, I will think about the garage sale.  The one thing I do know is that whatever does not sell is going IMMEDIATELY to the Salvation Army.  It will not (I repeat NOT) go back into the house or remain in the garage.

--happy living (and wish me luck!)

Wednesday, June 29

a turn of events and a new me

So, last Monday morning, when I got online, I saw a meeting notice from my manager for a one-on-one that day.  Immediately, I cringed.  You see, for the past three years (literally, since I started at an unhappy company) they have been in a constant state of Work Force Reductions (WFRs) and BEST Shoring (a fancy term for off-shoring your job to China, India, Argentina, Puerto Rico, etc  i.e. countries where they can all but steal labor -- how can a US employee that already makes less than nothing compete with them paying less than $5000 a year for someone in in India).

Anyways, I saw that meeting notice and I knew that meant my time was up.  Fortunately, I work from home most of the time, so I was given the news while I was at home  (which has been my wish forever).  This meant that I got to assimilate the information with my husband, in private.  WIN (if that's possible in this situation)!

The funny thing is, after 3 years of seeing other people (constantly) get let go, and living with that kind of stress, I was actually surprised and happy that my number one emotion was RELIEF.  I felt like a HUGE weight had been lifted off of me and my stress level went way down!  Don't get me wrong, I am NOT HAPPY to have lost my job, that's never a good thing.  But I am happy to be unshackled by that job.  Where I work, NO ONE keeps anything (or very few things) of personal nature in the office, because everyone who works there knows that it is much easier to clean out an empty desk than a full one.

From the first day that I started at that global computer company, I had this overwhelming gut feeling that this job was an absolute mistake.  I have never worked in such a toxic environment, because make no mistake, that was a VERY TOXIC environment.  Imagine interacting daily with hundreds of people, all of whom are in constant fear of losing their job.  People throw colleagues under the bus (sometimes without even realizing it, but usually they know what they are doing) without even blinking an eye.  People are forced to adapt very quickly in that kind of dog eat dog food chain, and they become very skilled. Myself included, even though I made a concerted effort to never deliberately throw someone under the bus, I know it's happened, usually to defend myself.

Who wants to exist in that kind of an environment?

And I was there for THREE YEARS, hating it from the FIRST DAY!

Fortunately, when I started there the economy (especially in battered Detroit) was in a FAR WORSE PLACE than it has been in the past 6 months or so.  There are job postings now, whereas before there was primarily a void.

Here are the positives that I see:

  • I got "WFRd" at home.
  • I had very few personal effects at the office (in fact they all fit, with TONS of room left over, in a large lululemon shopper
This is what my personal belongings fit into

  • I knew it was coming (for the past three years)
  • I don't miss the job
  • It happened on Monday, June 20, which means that I get a summer vacation.
  • I already registered months ago for the Detroit Freep Marathon on Sunday, October 16.  So now I HAVE. TIME. TO. TRAIN!!!!
  • SUMMER VACATION (and I fully intend to enjoy every single second of it)!
  • Time to get the house TRULY organized, which has been weighing on me for about 6 months now.
  • The economy is in a much better place now than it was a few months ago, so I know I will find something.
  • I have time to be more discerning in my search for a new job.
  • My husband is wonderful and supportive.
  • So are my parents
  • My 90+ grandma just moved into an assisted living facility that is only a few miles from my house, so I will have time to pop in and visit her, frequently :-D
So, there you have it -- I choose to look at this as a window opening, rather than a door closing!

--happy living

Saturday, June 18

melissa, melissa, melissa -- for all that you do, this post is for you! or: ridin' the v(eg)-train

Dearest Melissa,
As requested.  :-)
       Love, 
       Kelly


*** this is a bit rambly, I'm tired and don't really feel like trying to edit too much... Feel free to judge me, but i still love you ***

So in the past several months, I've made several unplanned, highly unanticipated changes in my life. The biggest of which has probably been the fact that I stopped eating meat. That's right, I've vegged out! The funniest thing about it is that I really have not missed it. At all.

More than once I have foundthat the smell of burgers and hot dogs on the grill is enough to make my mouth water like one of Pavlov's dogs. However, I have not felt tempted by it. To me, the real test was when Hubs and I were down in the basement chilling on the aerobed watching television -- it was a hot day and the basement was cool. Chilly even. Don't judge! -- and somehow ended on Food Network and we began watching a marathon (3 episodes) of Diners Drive-ins and Dives. It was ninety minutes of barbecue ribs, pulled pork, hamburgers, etc. All foods I LOVE -- or is that loved? When we turned the television off, Hubs got all hot and bothered to grill something, but I was able to watch with detachment, I guess. While the food all looked fantastic, delicious and downright delicious, I did not WANT it. I could appreciate it. But I did not want it. That was rather empowering to me, that I could resist and it was not hard! Restaurants are, on occasion, a bit of a challenge. Not all have a good list of vegetarian cuisine; and of those that do have offerings, many just go through their menu and say, "Ooh, there's no meat in this, let's label that Veg" In other words finding things beyond salads, grilled cheese sandwiches or Garden Burgers can be hard. But it's not impossible.

I should clarify, I am not vegan -- I really do not want to make that kind of a commitment. In other words, I still eat eggs and dairy (which certainly makes it much easier), and I also let myself have fish & seafood -- this makes travel a LOT easier. Not to mention that there is NO WAY I could give up sushi.  I love it so.

Furthermore, I should add that there was no motivation behind my shift to vegetarianism.  In fact, it was so anticlimactic that I am unable to even pinpoint when it happened.  It just did.  I know it was right around my three year wedding anniversary (March 7, if you were wondering), but that is the best I can do.  It just happened.  I'm not committed for life to this (I'm leaving myself that out as it takes the pressure off of me) but I am curious how long I can ride the V(eg)-Train.

Another change which I have made -- this one had a bit more conscious of a decision -- I switched from salon shampoos and conditioners to natural, organic ones. It took about two or three weeks before my hair stopped feeling like a straw-like, knotted mess when I washed it, but my hair has acclimated, and is shiny, full and silky.  If you are wondering, I use Desert Essence Shampoo (right here) and Conditioner (and here) in Italian Red Grape.  I bought mine at Whole Foods.  The fragrance is AMAZING and lasts for days -- I wash my hair every other day, and I can still smell it on my hair.

Last but not least... this one has been slowly growing for the past two years!  When it comes to household cleaning, I have switched from harsh cleaning chemicals, to more kid and pet friendly, green variety.  Having Scout has been very eye opening, and was the biggest catalyst for this evolution. She is such a curious dog that every time I would go to clean, I would constantly worry that she would lick at something or worse, so it became important to me to find things that I would not be as paranoid about.  Not to mention the fact that we are planning to have kids, why not be ahead of the curve.  As it is, I already hate cleaning and scouring, so when I felt like I had to constantly put effort into keeping the dog away to clean it became an even bigger chore.  Now, I am much less worried when she shadows me.

I use a couple of brands for cleaning products. The first one I love because they are actually pretty reasonable and they are effective in cleaning (obviously important) is Naturally It's Clean by Enzyme Fresh Home which you can buy at Alice.com (I love ALICE!  You always get free shipping, there are frequent coupons for products and the mark-up is nominal over a grocery store -- and you more than make up for it with the FREE SHIPPING!).  The best perk of using these products is that they are made and produced right here in the Metro Detroit area in Bloomfield Hills.  WINNING!

The other products I use are made by Shaklee -- who have been making GREEN cleaning products since the 1956.  Their Basic H2 is not only extremely long lasting -- you use a few drops to a tablespoon depending on your instant need, so a small 16oz bottle can last for a couple of years, easily!  Further, it's unscented, so I add a drop or two of the essential oil of my choice for fragrance (currently lime).  I love it!

What have you done to green / healthify (yep, made that word up) or otherwise spruce up your day to day routines?  Tell me in the comments.

PS:  Melissa, you are required to leave a comment.  Consider it my reward for posting ;-)

--happy living

Monday, May 23

where it's at!

This is where I was at with the house last summer....  Lots of changes!
a view from the top (of the stairs, that is)
living room.  this pic is probably the closest photo representation of the blue that i have.  Other pics look like it's "electric blue"  I don't LOVE this color, and do want to repaint it... but I'm not there yet.
another view of the living room.  plus, say hello to Audrey!
my argyle wall masterpiece.  I am SO proud of how this turned out and it was (surprisingly) very easy to do!
see what i mean, electric blue!
kitchen
kitchen: view II
family room.  This no longer looks like this.  There is now a big wall dividing the room right at the back of the loveseat now (the house originally had a wall as well.  Now that smaller area is an office. 

which we already used as such!

family room area
and now, up the stairs.
large guest room (front of house)
another view
and another.
small guest room (rear of house)
blue room
blue room
ahhh, my sanctuary!



--happy living

Scouter Pup

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